Lori Steed

 
Name Lori Steed, President 2005-2006, board member since ? I lost track.
Where I live Grover Beach (next to Pismo Beach) – the great dunes on the coast between L.A. and S.F. 10 miles from San Luis Obispo
Family Info Divorced in 2001, hearing daughter Jennifer, now 19 and attending NMSU, throwing discus and hammer on an athletic scholarship. She was so. Cal CIF champion her junior year and 5th in state her senior year. Okay I’m proud. Deaf son, Daniel, now 16, and maintaining a >3.5 GPA. yes I’m proud. Oh and I am engaged to the wonderful Thomas Sortino III. No, no date set yet. Stay tuned.
Where my deaf child attends school Righetti High School in Santa Maria
How I felt when it sunk in that my child doesn’t hear It hit me when I was at the Pantages, experiencing Phantom, the same day we had taken him to House Ear Institute. It suddenly hit me that he’d never experience the detail of the voice in opera. Tears just started running down my cheeks.
What having a Deaf child has brought to my life Sooo much. Appreciation and Awareness. ASL, new people, friends, awareness of non-verbal communication, new abilities, an education about the education system, the legal system, and awareness of people and their kindness and the lengths people will go to for something or someone they believe in. Wow. So much.
My advice to other parents Slow down. Study your children. Watch, observe, learn who they are. Follow their lead. Love them. Don’t try to fix them or change them. They have something to teach us about ourselves. Learn from them. Just love them the way they are, right now, every day.
My deaf child’s biggest milestone(s) Transforming from an isolated, frustrated, depressed, yearning to be included student to the intelligent, funny, happy, successful, leader that he truly is.
Year I joined IMPACT I think 1993 or 1994
Someone I remember from my first conference Nancy Sager
One thing I remember from my first conference They have a childrens program with people who can communicate with my son! I get to actually focus on workshops and he’s having a good time, too!!!!
Why I joined the board Because I was impressed with the collaboration with CAL-ED, the experiences at the conference every year, and I believe there is great value and worth in what we do for children, parents, and community.
My role models, mentors, heroes and inspirers in this journey The whole IMPACT board, Carl Kirchner, Jon Levy, Terrylene, Cathy Walsh, Max & Charlotte Wilhite, Bob McMahon, Rita Jordan, The whole Hapitok staff and volunteers (all the TIGRS!!!!) +++ more
Outside of parenting a deaf child, I also… (hobbies) Play soccer, run, frequent the beach, ride my bike, collect friends, travel, learn new things, expand my awareness, dance, create art, sing, study life, and love people. I give free hugs. Find me and get one.
And a little about my education, work or career… Cal Poly SLO, Graphic Design. 23 years with American Eagle Airlines. Starting a new business. I love to inspire and lead. Watch my website for updates. www.loristeed.com
And my final words… HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND! HUG YOUR KID(S)!